Welcome
My name is Aude Ayliffe
Your Surrey based BACP Psychotherapist and ANLP Transformational Coach
A confidential and safe place for you.
My unique approach successfully combines Psychotherapy & Transformational Coaching.
My thirteen years of professional experience at private practice, charities, CAHMS, specialist schools and colleges have helped hundreds of clients overcome, manage or heal specifically from emotional and narcissistic abuse, relationships, neurodivergence, anxiety and depression.
My approach to therapy is warm, open-minded and down-to-earth. I believe therapy should feel like a safe, supportive space where you can talk openly, explore your thoughts and emotions, and feel genuinely understood.
I offer personalised therapy tailored to your unique experiences, helping you build self-awareness, strengthen coping skills and create lasting, positive change in your life.
I specialise in helping people understand how their past experiences influence the way they think, feel and respond to life today. Together, we explore patterns that may be keeping you stuck and develop practical strategies to help you move forward with greater clarity and confidence.
Whether you are seeking therapy for healing, personal development, or support through a challenging time, our work together will focus on helping you better understand yourself and develop tools that support long-term emotional resilience and wellbeing.
Services

Therapy
Private in person, Dual therapy sessions
Psychotherapy and Coaching

Coaching
Private in person or online Transformational Coaching
Emotional & Narcissistic Abuse and Coercive Control Recovery
Testimonials
“Aude, you have been amazing and can’t thank you enough for helping T (and me!!) over the last 5 months when we felt so helpless worrying about her. We feel more confident she will reach out as and when she needs it”
PAUL, Father of T (aged 15y old)
“Thank you Aude. I couldn’t see E opening to anyone else and have seen a massive change in her manage her boundaries, standing for herself and being the happy E again!”
JULIE, Mother of E (aged 18y old)
“I can’t believe how stuck I had been felling for the past 5 years and I didn’t know where to start when I first came to see you. I feel alive again still stunned how much my whole life has changed in a matter of months. For that I will forever be grateful.”
STEVE, (aged 29y old)



